Future

So lately I have been thinking a lot about String Beans future, mostly if SB were to stay with us permanently. I really don't like thinking/talking about the future because if SB gets reunited with parents I don't want to have this life shattering feeling.  I have thought more and more on how I want SB to have some connection to birth family. I have felt / known since the begining of the fostering stuff that I want whoever we adopt to have connections to his/her family.  So I have been working in my head of how I would do it.  But it is way to soon to go beyond just thinking about it in my head.