Visit...

So my anxiety was at high levels this morning. I had to prepare for the visit, I had to prepare SB for the visit.  I had to mentally & emotionally prepare for visit.

Well I got to the location a few minutes early & met eith SB's CW who rang the doorbell three times...no answer each time. I thought "Yes, maybe the visit will get postponed & I wont have to deal with the unknowns yet!"  Well CW called BD and he answered, doorbell not working...crap I gotta hand him off after all.

So I handed the bubs off to bd, get introduced by sw, friendly hello's given all around. I leave as soon as it seams right to leave.  When I came back, bd was diapering the bubs. He was apperantly very appreciative of how well we took care of the little man.  SW made a comment that bm & bd said they liked how many cute outfits we had for bubs.  Cw was really happy with all the thought we put into the things in SB's diaper bag (communication journal w/intro note, TONS of pictures, disp camera for them to take pictures during visits & a easter craft I did)

All in all I am a little less anxious about visits, and really trying not to focus on the future to much. It is hard though since much of my family seems to be, I just don't want them to be too hurt in the end if SB goes home with bd... I see some members of my fam already struggling with SB seeing bd... Some family say the kids dont understand when they are this little and if RU happens SB will be wanting me and not bd. I am not so sure-at this point, yes... but as the relationship grows (if it grows) then I don't think so that much.  I donno. Right now I am looking forward to easter and the next weeks and months will play out how how his story will go.  We are leaning on God at every step and we know He knows how the journey will end, sometimes I wish he would clue us in to the next step!