Really...

I thought the hard part of admitting my IF to people was just that, admitting it. I was wrong. The hard part is dealing with peoples comments.  Many people we tell are super nice and know to an extent what should/shouldn't be said.  Well tonight again I was reminded of how some people just don't know what they should NOT say.  The thing that was said to hubby was "if your aunt was younger I bet she would've been willing to be a surrogate for you guys." Um... what do you say to that...there are no words... The person was trying to be nice I think, but really that is not something to say.  I don't even know how to respond to something like that. Hubby said "well no matter what it is out of the question because it costs way to much." I mean really, think before you say stuff! Ok, sorry that this is rantish!