It's hard for me... does he think about it?

This past saturday we had a "party" at our place. I put party in quotes because it is more of a gathering of friends and pretty low keyed when it comes to the partying. Anywho... two of our friends have kiddos and hubby's brother & wife are expecting any day (yay!!). They were talking all about kiddo stuff and what to expect at the hospital and such.  This is what is known as the mommy clique (sp?)  Ok so many mommies and daddies would deny they do it, but us outsiders know they do it.  So I know I used to feel left out when people would go about talking about this sort of stuff, but at our party the guys got into it to. I don't think the hubbs has been in a situation similar (i could very well be wrong) so I wonder what is going on in his head. If he thinks about that loss that he has also lost. The loss of the whole pregnancy experience and being with his wife at the hospital and the moment of extreme joy when the baby is born.  I wonder what else he might miss and if he is upset about it. He is not a too emotional guy, so even if he had a ting of sadness, not sure he would say anything.  So other than that the gathering was fun.  Thinking of having one of the couples over for new years... they dont have plans and if the situation keeps being the way it is, we have no plans.  So yeah....